Lack of confidence around the opposite sex is fear based. It is actually an irrational fear or phobia called Sexophobia or Heterophobia.
While many people choose to ‘live with’ their phobia by avoiding the trigger of their fear and anxiety, one can hardy avoid half the human population.
Triggers can include certain types of individuals, photographs, voices, clothing, perfumes, make-up – almost anything.
We also have natural feelings of sexual attraction. If an individual suffers from this phobia there is a very real risk the anxiety could develop into depression.
As with other phobias the fear of the opposite sex may consist of any or all of the following criteria:
- the persistent fear of the opposite sex.
- exposure to the feared gender provokes an immediate anxiety response.
- adult sufferers recognize that the fear is excessive, unreasonable or irrational (this is not always the case with children).
- exposure to the opposite gender is most often avoided altogether, or is endured with fear and dread.
- the fear interferes significantly with daily activities (social, familial, occupational, etc.) including, in some extreme cases, leaving the home.
- symptoms last for at least six months, often commencing in childhood.
- anxiety, panic attacks or avoidance cannot be accounted for by another mental disorder.
- shortness of breath,
- rapid shallow breathing,
- irregular heartbeat,
- excessive sweating,
- dry mouth,
- inability to articulate words or sentences,
- feelings of dread
- fear of dying
- fear of harm or illness
- guilt, shame, self-blame
- Withdrawing from others
- Feeling sad or hopeless
- Feeling disconnected
- Confusion, difficulty concentrating
- Anger, irritability, mood swings
- feeling to run-away
- feeling faint, pallor, tinnitus, panic attacks
The feelings of dread are very real for the sufferer because the unconscious mind has activated an instinctive fear reaction. The reaction is either ‘stand (or freeze) and fight’ or ‘flight’ *run away).
The old out-dated treatment for phobias was called ‘desensitization’. It involved exposing the sufferer to their fear over and over again. This most often caused abreactions — a type of catharsis.
Abreactions are ‘the expression and consequent release of a previously repressed emotion, achieved through reliving the experience that caused it’. Therefore, pre-recorded MP3 download hypnotherapy products incorporating age regression are usually impractical. At worst abreactions can re-traumatize a client if mismanaged. Hypnosis Downloads found on the Internet are usually nothing more than hypnotic inductions followed by positive affirmations. They are not ‘therapies’ at all.
While this approach is time-consuming, expensive, and perhaps traumatic, some psychologists still persist in using this antiquated therapy approach today.
Sigmund Freud and Josef Breuer used hypnosis to assist patients to recall and relive traumatic experiences from their past which had been repressed by the unconscious for protection. Freud then abandoned this therapy approach. Psychoanalyst Carl Jung expressed interest in abreactions as a possible way to purge trauma, but later decided it had serious limitations. Science fiction writer and founder of Scientology, L. Ron Hubbard had observed abreactive therapy in a Navy hospital. He then wrote about it in his book Dianetics, claiming it as his own invention. Truth is, it had fallen out of favor long before he picked it up. Some psychologists are experimenting with technology, such as VR goggles, to use ‘cyber desensitization’ which still persists in causing abreactions.
Psychoanalyst Carl Jung expressed interest in abreactions as a possible way to purge trauma, but later decided it had serious limitations.
Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex subliminal messages are abreaction free, so you can rest assured you are safe.
Some medications can be used to treat the anxiety but fail to address the presenting problem (ultimately it never goes away – stop the medication and it returns). Anxiety can be temporarily treated with drugs such as the commonly prescribed benzodiazepines, which include Valium (diazepam), Xanax (alprazolam), Klonopin (clonazepam) and Ativan (lorazepam). The problem with drug interventions are the possible side effects – including drowsiness and addiction. The medication approach is just a ‘coping mechanism’ rather than ‘a remedy’.
Synonyms of the word phobia include; anxiety, aversion, distaste, dread, loathing, obsession, panic, resentment, revulsion, avoidance, detestation, disgust, dislike, fear, hatred, irrationality, neurosis, repulsion and terror.
The symptoms of a phobia (which may include; extreme anxiety, dread and anything associated with panic such as shortness of breath, rapid breathing, irregular heartbeat, excessive sweating, nausea, dry mouth, inability to articulate words or sentences and shaking) are very real for the sufferer, because the unconscious mind has activated the instinctive fear reaction, as a survival reaction.
Our deep unconscious mind is supposed to seek out threats and assess the level of danger to protect us. Sometimes it thinks the level of threat and danger is worse than it is in reality. If the irrational fear or phobia results in a panic attack, it is a panic attack which is the real threat. The phobic reaction has failed its purpose because it is not protecting at all. It is the danger because the sufferer cannot focus and think clearly.
The Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex MP3 is an abreaction free. It can guide your deep unconscious mind to quickly and painlessly release the problem without any pain or struggle.
‘Welcome’ Subliminal Affirmations; Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex
Your deep unconscious mind can unlearn the feelings of lack of confidence around the opposite sex just as it learnt it in the first place.
When ‘Welcome’ subliminal affirmations are used to ‘lock-in’ the deep unconscious shift achieved following one-on-one therapy with Peter Zapfella the results can be nothing less than miraculous.
The more the Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex messages are repeated over and over, the more they are uncritically accepted by the deep unconscious. If you listen to the Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex MP3 while sleeping, on ‘repeat’ your unconscious mind will hear this message almost 400 times every night. If you were to listen to the ‘Environmental – Lake waves’ MP3 while sleeping, you could choose to also listen to the ‘Pleasant piano and guitar melody’ and/or the ‘Zumba’ – Latin style dance music during the day. Then your deep unconscious would hear the affirmations repeated around 800 – 1200 times, while your logical conscious mind would hear it around 60 – 90 times. That’s powerful because a message repeated enough will become a new unconscious belief.
Perhaps the cheapest and easiest option is to download and listen to Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex subliminal affirmations as recommended. This approach is very effective for many people.
Now you can listen to Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex subliminals when ready to sleep and let these gentle and encouraging words guide your unconscious mind into the realms of dreams.
Subliminal Affirmation Text: Welcome Confidence Around The Opposite Sex
“Past self doubt about the opposite sex has vanished. Because you now understand the past is nothing but a memory of how you used to think and behave. It is funny to think that some other people fear speaking to the opposite sex even more than you do.
Now you listen more than you speak. You treat everyone with warmth, dignity, and respect. You are open minded to all the people who have different skin colour, sexual preferences, sexual identity, disability, religion, culture and beliefs. Because diversity is richness of experience and understanding.
You make eye contact and you smile often. you laugh at other peoples good jokes and you have a few good jokes of your own, ready to use when appropriate.
You feel more confident and self assured because you know you are well presented. Your skin, hair, teeth, breath and clothes are clean, neat and tidy. You look good. You smell good.
You are open and honest, and you feel good. It shows.
You might not have noticed, you are now more calm and relaxed in the mind and the body. You are more confident and the way you feel is becoming better and better because the burdens have been lifted for ever and ever now that you welcome confidence around the opposite sex.”
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